"Content access" filter should check for node_grants implementations before adding node access grant queries

Rebased onto 11.x and tidied up the test a bit.

Can we add an issue summary?

1) Drupal\Tests\views\Functional\Plugin\AccessTest::testContentAccessFilter
Failed asserting that an array does not contain 'node_access'.
/builds/issue/drupal-1822440/core/modules/views/tests/src/Functional/Plugin/AccessTest.php:133
FAILURES!

Shows test coverage
Actual change seems pretty straight forward, no issue and pipeline is green. I did rebase because it was 200+ commits