WANTED: Edit Own Content in Protected Forums

I'm using Advanced Forums to create a Prayer Request board on our church website, and naturally, some requesters will want their requests to remain private. Using Forum Access, I've implemented a forum that is blocked to all but members of the "Prayer Team" Drupal Role. However, there are two problems I can't seem to solve:

• Users should be able to POST requests to the private board even if they aren't members of the Prayer Team
• Users should be able to VIEW, EDIT, and COMMENT ON, their own requests on the private board.

Is this a feature I'm missing? Is Forum Access the wrong module for this?